180,

Glad to see your update on the progress that you are making. Looking back, I'm sure you thought the peace that you are currently feeling was unattainable in the early stages. Just goes to show that GAL and your efforts in self growth are paying dividends.

One thing you mentioned, is that you are trying not to interrupt in the middle of a conversation. I once heard a Pastor say, "We have 2 ears and 1 mouth to listen twice as much as we talk."

It drives me nuts when someone interrupts. It dismisses what the person speaking is trying to convey. Kudos to you for identifying that issue. Now that you are cognizant of it, you can pay special attention how you interact and the other person responds. It is a big deal when it comes to your communication skills.

When you are not completely clear what the other person is telling you, ask them a follow up question. Like, "You said_________. This is what I understand___________. Is that correct?" It demonstrates that you are listening and it is important to you in what they are saying.

You are doing good 180. Keep on keeping on.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa