WW won't separate

[resolut]

Thanks Leah. I am counting down the days until next week when I'll be on vacation with the kids and without her.

She did respect my wishes on a boundary of getting her own cell plan. Its a relief that I don't have to see all of that and its no longer there as a temptation to track her activity

I've been trying lots of validating and affirming in my conversations with her. Not that I'm trying to win her back but just for my own sanity. As she sinks deeper into this she's just not a happy person and I don't enjoy being around her most of the time. There are still these feelings of wanting to share something with her or walk into the house and sit down next to her like I always did but of course I just stop myself. Its hard to shake old feelings of familiarity. More and more I am just evicting my feelings for her.