And I really fear that this has been going on for quite sometime. She says that she told him no more and she won't do it again. But tonight she is out with "friends". She also doesn't see it as wrong what she did. She said we were separated and she didn't think it was that big of a deal. It was to me. And I am heart broken. I guess I should say too that I found out by going thru her phone. Big mistake on my part cuz I should have let her tell me in her own time.