So today when I dropped my d off. I calmly told her that I am emotionally spent. And I will not put 150% in this unless she is willing. I told her my rules for this separation Um, sorry but telling her your rules is not going to get you closer to your goal. You are rushing this b/c you think it'll get you out of your pain faster. It won't.
Giving her ultimatums is really not constructive at this point. Truly, please hire a DB coach or at least read the DB books
Have you read either of them?
and when she is ready to follow them we can then start the process of healing our family. you need to read a DB book asap. How'd you guys recover after the sexting you did with the OW a few years back?
But I told her I am not going to give her emotional support when she is lonely and wants someone to talk to as long as she spends anytime with another man. And now I feel amazing cuz I am free from this. I have forgiven her and won't allow her to cause me anymore pain. really? I don't mean to sound brusque but I simply do not believe your pain is over for good.
But I'm intrigued about your previous comment that you often asked yourself if you felt like staying in the m. What was that about? Did you actually want something like this to happen?
And today is the first day I have felt like I wanna go do something for me. So I am gal and heading to a car show
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
