Thanks Sandi. I don't feel inferior at all to him. Better looking, make way more money, honest, dependable, caring etc. What he has on me is fun and excitement. He's a bartender so he knows way more people than me. They like trips and fine dining every week. I always been simple but I do need to get out more, one of her complaints.
Your right about the detaching thing. Its my time now, cant do it anymore. Not saying I will divorce, but just cant focus on the M for awhile. This has prob taken 10 years off my life. You guys provide great advice hear, I'm just hard headed. When I want something right or wrong, I obsess over it.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
