I find my willingness to continue to wane. Crawling up to 10 months. Im seeing subtle changes in her but starting to see a lot of negatives.
1) On paper, wife and AP is way more compatible than me and her. They are from same city, hurricane Katrina relocated them. They both have a love for New Orleans. Both had a rough childhood, both love to travel, both like going out and being "seen", both love to take 1000s of photos, AP divorced his wife for reasons my wife wants a divorce, both love music. Im partly some of those things but I'm much simpler.
2) I'm worried if recon even happens, I wont be able to keep up with her newfound high maintenance.
I know ultimately its up to me but has anyone came across this? Not giving up because just tired, but just because spouse changed way too much.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
