But she chose YOU. Why? Think back and get that person back he's still there we just loose site of him.
AP/LO a co-worker and married with 2 kids (2 & 4), must be crappy people to do what they have done.
We must understand that we are partly responsible for them looking outside the marriage, I'm lucky enough to know where I fell down and am working on making myself better working on my P.I.E.S and maintaining my bridge to fantasy island (see previous post)
We must show our WW's that they would be mental to leave us by being the better choice when their rose coloured glasses come off AND THEY WILL. Also whilst working on yourself this has the added bonus in showing others how well you are coping and who knows what's around the corner...
Win win.
Work on yourself for yourself she will notice.
Take care.
Mark
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
