Please also understand I am not showing neediness or begging for her to come back to me I'm just showing her when SHE comes to me that I can relate to her in a way that she knows is friendly and safe.
She understands how I feel about what she's doing and again I made the hardest decision to leave the family home after much torture. I know this will seem wrong to most people on these boards BUT you had to experience it. Don't be judgemental.
I actually understand about him moving further away and if I were to be begging and needy I would expect my WW to not suggesting in any way this was you as I don't know your sitch. BUT again I don't get involved in all that I GAL and she see's it, if we talk to each other at all it's for a maximum of 15 minutes and that's just to be civil.
I have NEVER said to her I'd take her back this would show neediness NO NO obviously I would BUT boundaries would need to be in place first and a clear plan as to how she would mend our R. Even then she would need to be allowed to greave over losing her AP/LO which is totally understandable BUT I would not expect any contact etc.
"Desperate is rarely attractive" I'm not desperate I can take it or leave it if she wants to come and see the boys am truly not bother one jot.
I appreciate your support and would like it to continue as with all here as I know this is not going to be easy.
Keep at it.
Mark
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
