Just take your time man. Good chance she drifts farther before the possibility of reconciliation. Your methods may need to get harsher if that's the case but you know your wife better than anyone here. Make sure you monitor the results of your plan. I did the same crap over and over with no results or try new plans for a week and not give it time.
Yesterday was our 7 year together anniversary and she canceled our trip the day after I pay $300/night for the resort. Please have no expectations of this. Women appear way harder to get back than men. They have a new relationship and now cant hurt the affair partner.
Seems like you have good intentions, best of luck to you. Research all you can, you may find something that will be perfect for your situation.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
