well DonH,

you make a good point. The cynic (scaredy cat) in me says guys are more likely to be creepy...

Sexist? I KNOW! (But I'm only sexist when it's convenient so...you know...that's different).

Yes there are a lot of obvious players with the standard inapplicable messages and over the top cliched ones.

A thoughtful message - mostly get a response but as Ginger said, it's easy to get overwhelmed.

Ginger, as for photos, don't we have to crop out a ton if there are other people?

God forbid I put a selfie on, as 90% of the selfies I see make the guys look insane or drunk.

Or it's dark...

OKAY I won't whine anymore since poor DonH got stood up online.

Other than paying something, are there big differences in the programs?

And no, I"m not sure I'm ready. For some reason I set a "one year" timeline on myself back in the fall.
I also always thought it was a in poor taste to date while still legally married.

But now I just have no idea when the D will be final at this rate. Yet here I am taking a dip, sort of.

Sheesh, with H cutting d19 off, who knows when this D process ends?

But I digress.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change