S13 didn't want to attend the gallery with us, so we went alone. Nothing big, but it was nice to just talk about art and be grown. There's no rush to make a move. But part of my 180 would be to show more affection and to make a move. Which kinds of contradicts the whole no pursuing rule. By not pursuing my W would look at this sitch as business as usual. So right now, I'm doing the 180 changes and trying to balance some light pursuing. If that makes any sense. W has checked in on me when I have pulled away from her. But that tends to just makes her wonder what I am doing or may lead to sex. But not the romance stuff like holding hands or kissing. And still no word on wanting to remain in the MR.
