And my first post would suggest 3-36 months I know this, again how do you detach when you have 2 children together? This will never happen totally so I have to build a strategy around that, presently the only thing better than the AP/LO are our children and her not being with them would hurt BUT would hurt the children also. NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.
Again I feel I am doing as much as I can under these circumstance's to continue to keep sane and work on regaining my M. I obviously don't condone her actions and this is vigorously enforced when the need arises but once is normally enough.
I understand this is a looong journey but as I mention in a previous post a win-win.
Many Thanks.
Mark
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
