Limerence and My Situation

[Bdog37]

My post was about limerence and how it always ends I am basically relying on this whilst working on myself and investing in something that might or more likely not happen and her RC our MR.

I am familiar with this term, no expert by any means, but it isn't like a common headache that will go away within a few hours. This could last a very long time so I just think the people on here are trying to look out for you by saying you need to detach from her. The way you speak of limerence in your first post is like a possible drug that could eventually wear off and you just want to show her that you will be there when it does. While that is very commendable, I just think right now you need to show her "tough love" and let her walk her own path.

Please keep in mind that love is a choice and right now she is choosing to keep a R with the OM as well as you.