Mark,

Fair enough. Even if I don't agree with it at least you have a plan.

***Please appreciate I am not at her beckon call I have my own life my own friends and am enjoying this BUT my R with her and our boys is too important not to try everything I can to bring her back.***

Is that a typo? You are the first person I have ever heard enjoying being here.

One thing I disagree with on this forum is we use words like limerence, fog, MLC. To me this is an attempt to label their actions and therefore make an excuse for it.