Park,

Again, I will commend you for having a plan. Most people come here and have no plan whatsoever including myself.

What's the one thing Sandi says that effects a wayward? She/he has to feel a loss. What loss is your wife feeling right now?

She has the OM, house and gets to play family whenever she wants and has her best friend to talk with.

You can ignore reality but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality.

I know this sounds harsh but we are not here to blow sunshine up your a$$.

Fasten your seat belt because you are in for a long ride.

Best of luck.