So after I missed two phone calls from H at the beginning of this week, and did NOT follow my normal MO, which would have been to text sorry I missed your call blah blah......, but rather stayed NC, he has continued with what I think of as spoiled, entitled behavior, which is to "show me" by not calling any more. I held out though, and I meant when there was further contact, it would be him making it. I wake up this morning and there is a text from him, "When is your Ya-Ya trip?" which is the reason I told him his re-scheduled trip would not work for me. I eventually texted back just simply, June 9-12. It will be interesting to see what happens next.
Handyman from next door just stopped by to chat again, and brought me his card. Hmmmmm. Good for the self-confidence. Which as we all know takes a real beating after BD.


M-60 H-51
M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton