So this morning we talked on the phone for a couple mins. I explained my feelings in a calm and controlled manner. I told her that I cant try and work on us when she is have sex(dating) another man. I refuse to be option b. Before I found all this out we had talked a lot about us and what we both needed to work on. I told her that I can no longer do that, I will not be her emotional support when she is with another man. I also probably screwed up because I told her I refuse to be in limbo for ever. I stated that by July 31st, I needed to know if she wanted to try and work on our marriage or be done. I didn't tell her we had to be back together by then but she needed to search her heart and soul and see what she wanted. I picked July 31st because that will have been 3 months since she walked away. And it will be two months since I found out about her having sex when we were separated. It will give me a chance to process all of this and figure out what I want as well.
