Again limited contact due to having children who we share custody and when at mine I remove myself. No pursuing ever, no calls, no texts no emails nothing. She pursues me, maybe I am providing her with some emotional support but on my terms.
Hello parkema,
I'm so sorry for the situation you are in.
It is safe to say that you are not pursuing your wife, which is good. Not sure I would go so far as to say that she is pursuing you. It sounds more like she is temperature checking you to be sure you are available as plan B in case things don't work out with the OM.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
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