My M is 99.9 percent over, and the only reason it's not official is because of a small snafu in the alimony wording, but my L is working on that now and if they can get it in court next week I will be officially divorced.

I went to court today to finalize the permanent spousal agreement and I honestly thought it would be a walk in the park as my W and I had skipped mediation and worked everything out among ourselves (with our L's approval). There was never any talk about divorce among us. In fact, we never talked about our R at all.

Little did I know the divorce proceedings were well under way and as part of the proceedings the judge would have signed the divorcee decree and I would have been divorced. A year in the making, but also it would be over just like that.

I still had lingering hopes we could still get our M back. I am a much better person than I was a year ago (my L and my W's L both say I'm a great-standup guy), but my W just can't trust me anymore and all she seems to worry about is the money she can get from me.

My weekend plans were to pack my stuff as I'm moving into another state next week because of my job. It was something I was dreading and now it's doubled the misery I'm going through.

Crap.


M 55 W 52
MR 32 T 34+
D29
BD May 8, 2016 - She moved out
ILYBNILWY May 15 (Through email)
No EA/PA
August 23 - DB used against me in every way
Divorce July 18, 2017 - Life is getting better every day