Originally Posted By: downhub
yesterday she was pushing my buttons and we had a big fight.

So why did you contribute to it? If she escalates, why are going up with her? Disagreements are acceptable; but why turn it into a 'big fight'?

Originally Posted By: downhub
I thanked her for her honesty

Huh? Id say its ok to appreciate that she is willing to share her feelings....but what do you mean by 'honesty'? That makes it sound as if you are believing her words which is not a good idea.