What to do

[Bdog37]

I don't know if I want to move past this, granted we were are separated and not together. But man does it hurt so bad

Do people ever move on in a relationship after something like this happens.

So sorry sls.

Unfortunately, you are at the beginning of a very emotional rollercoaster ride and it isn't an easy one. I would agree with Thornton and hold off on making any major decisions right now. Sadly this is going to be a long journey so deciding if you can move past this or not right now is not recommended. The news of the A is too fresh and you are going to go through many stages of mixed feelings that may hinder any rational decision making abilities. I would take some time and read MWD thread on "Healing from Infidelity". It may help with many questions you have right now.

Also, couples do and can move past A's in their M's. It does take a lot of work and healing, but it is possible and some have even come out with a stronger MR then before.

Good luck and keep posting