Do you see her much in person? Have you seen a positive affect in her with what you're doing? Is what you're doing much the same as me?
I have ordered the DR book and am waiting to devour it and hopefully will gain even more tools to help me fight for my marriage. I'm so happy to have found somewhere I can vent and gain an insight into what is good and what isn't so good.
Honestly I feel that her coming to me is possibly hindering the solution here and could drag this out longer than I can sustain it for BUT deep in the back of my mind I know she is worth it, the boys deserve it and the AP/LO WILL NOT WIN..
Take care and keep strong, with patience and hope everything is possible.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
