Originally Posted By: dale165
After my wife's friend blast, w has went from let's not talk anymore to let's plan a weekend together to see if we can muster up that old spark.


Why are you agreeing to this? No way would I plan a weekend with my spouse if I knew they were in an affair with another person. In my opinion, it's likely that you will go and she will be comparing her feelings for you with those for OM, but you honestly cant compete, because she wont have those first feelings of 'butterflies' for you; that just isnt how life works. It feels like she's doing it to give her the ammo to say 'I tried'.

And Id for sure make her get some type of STD testing done before I messed around with her.