You seem like you have a great handle on the situation
sorry you had to leave the home usually it is the MLCer who leaves
Protect yourself financially The MLCer will spend everything and more
Many become terrible parents, so watch that as well
as far as your strategies--seem good This is usually a long process Some spouses return, although they are not the same unless they do massive therapy Many continue down the MLCer path for many years You will read many stories here, many Mlcer share same characteristics You will know more as time passes and you see where she is headed good luck
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
