No doubt about it. I don't have anyone on the inside to let me know since they are in another city so that's good. I think I may have said but I work in front a computer all day, it's just a few keystrokes and I'm there but I did have her change her passwords to everything. I found myself looking at every website to login and look for things. Haven't done this in weeks with exception of that cruise line call, so I'm getting there. I get easily distracted with all this.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old