1: I wasn't trying anymore(probably some truth to that) 2: about three years ago her and I got pregnant-she lost the baby at 13 weeks and in her mind I wasn't there for her enough(I sure tried to be) 3: about 4 1/2 years ago a women and I exchanged inappropriate text wife found out. Thought we had worked thru that but she said it is still bothering her 4: our dog she was tired of the mess of having a big dog 5: said I never finished a project around the house(some truth to that I was redoing our master shower and was in way over my head thought I could handle it I was wrong. But to much of a man to admit that and so it just keep getting pushed down the list) 6: we never did things just the two of us(for sure truth in that we didn't ever just do us stuff always with kids or other family) 7: she put way more into the relationship then I did 8: just not happy
