One of the things he said to me after he first left still haunts me and I would like insight.

He said "Nothing will change for you. I am the one that loses everything. (referring to child support) Its not like you had my affection"

He also said "you did nothing for me" When I said I raised our son he responded "thats not for me"

These are the words of a classic Narcissist.

M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer