If I'm available to answer his calls, then I will. If I'm not, well then, I'm just not. I hope I'm doing the right thing.
I think that sounds great.
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Cadence, if you happen to stop by and read this, just wondering how things are going with you.... I haven't been on here as much lately so I may have missed if you posted, but hopefully, if you haven't, that's a good sign that you are doing well. Let me hear from you!
Thanks so much. It's nice to know someone's thinking of me.
Truthfully, it's been a struggle. I weaned myself off some ADs that had me in a fog and made me not able to think (I gave it time to see if it would let up and it didn't), and so I've been feeling depressed and down.
I had an IC appointment today with someone new. It went okay but it was mostly catching her up on my life to date and what I was struggling with. So no relief there.
After H called my mom, there was a day or two of silence and then he wrote asking for my lawyer's contact info. He said he'd get one too and they could negotiate (after finally accepting I wasn't interested in doing that informally). I sent him the info and asked him to do the same when he'd gotten a lawyer.
Then, there was about a week and a half of silence. It felt like he was trying to bait me into calling him to find out what was going on. Then yesterday his attorney called me and left a voicemail, and sent me an email confirming her call and asking me to please give her my lawyer's name and contact information.
What the? I'd already given it to H. Why would he give his new lawyer my contact information and not the information he already had? Is it a game? So I found the email I'd written him on the 17th, forwarded it to his lawyer and cc'd him. It's not my job to give his lawyer information he already has.
I went to dinner with a friend last night and she told me she doesn't think H is going to come back this time because of the negativity over the house. I find that really upsetting.
I'm still angsting over what to do about the financial arrangements. I really don't know what is right. Maybe it's time for a DB coach.
