As of now things are doing well with my wife, I am still taking it slow and letting things progress as they do without much pushing.
I don't talk about the relationship unless she initiates that. Even then I LISTEN more than talk. Listening is the key right now, she doesn't want to hear nor cares what you have to say right now.
Don't stay home it will make things worse, she more than likely needs space/time to think. (I say more than likely because everyone is different)
Work on yourself, what changed in your relationship from dating to now? Change yourself back, show her what she is missing and go from there! If anything it will help you in the future
Detach also. Prepare for the worst but hope for the best. that is the best advice I was given. you need to be ready for the BD of D.
Right now the more you pursue her the farther away she is going to get. Leave it be and let it grow on its own! I begged, pleaded, told her I changed, asked her if she could see the change etc.. none of that worked at all. it wasn't until we started to spend a little time together that she saw change, once they see the change that's when things happen. She will start contacting you again. Do not argue with her, don't tell her you changed, just listen to her no matter how hard it is. She needs that more than anything right now.
How long have y'all been S? I was falling into the chasignher too for the first 12 days but since monda I've gone NC nothing's changed yet other than her taking more stuff from the house. It it's only been 2 weeks from today hat she left. I just pray that once the hurt and anger subside she can start to see all the good we have in our relationship
we were S for about 6 weeks. I moved out with a co-worker for a couple of weeks, and then it was an in home split.
