In some ways, I wish that WW had just pushed for D a while ago. When I first came to this site, I saw people who had been in for 2 years and still in a limbo state. I thought how is that possible? There is no way I will be there.... and here I am.
Hi Pinn, I was reading through your thread last night and this comment stopped me in my tracks. You are much further along than me. However, I am having this same feeling. I've only known about the A since January and had assumed we would be resolving this by June with D or R. I thought at the time there is no way this can go on for 6 months and now here I am too. I can easily see this dragging on for 2 years. With each day that goes by I can feel my W moving further and further from me in the M. Sometimes I think her avoidance of me is really just out of her own shame. I don't know if its true but it makes me feel better to think that.
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house
