What you've said all makes sense. And I hope your husband comes back to planet Earth. It is a lot harder with children involved. I can imagine. If I ever have children with my wife, I'm going to need to try even harder to make sure this never happens again, because this all would have been so much harder to go through with kids involved. It was hard enough just losing her and her circle of people. And I hated the idea of my wife having kids and a life with another man, but I'm also not going to want some other man taking care of my children at all, much less more than me (unless of course something were to happen to me), especially if this other man contributed to our breakup. I can't​ imagine having kids and having A--hole living with my kids. So, it's going to be very important to me that I keep my wife's love meters on full, for both of our sakes​.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.