After my wife's friend blast, w has went from let's not talk anymore to let's plan a weekend together to see if we can muster up that old spark. She also asked me to help with resume. I doubt she said weekend thing to manipulate me to help with resume. Admittedly, I was very excited but I did tone that down after much thought. Of course I want to go but I'm sure she will have her daily swing of emotions, especially after being directly confronted by a mutual friend. The mutual friend kicked the w out of her wedding bc the mutual friend was actually not to biased (mutual friend is my best friends fiance so they are more my friend than w) but she actually put alot of effort into understanding my wife's problems. My W just blew her off for months which made friend upset, like maybe their friendship wasn't what she thought.
Just an update, maybe the confrontation will ultimately help, maybe not but wife def needed to hear those things.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years