Calibri, Thank you so much for sharing your story. There are many similarities between yours and mine, albeit on a different side of the diagnosis.
We were seeing a marriage therapist, not one I really felt comfortable with. The therapist and my wife went to high school together. I always felt the therapist was hesitant around my wife. By the time I honestly was aware and cared to put the hard work in, my wife felt it was a cop out to change therapists. She has mentioned seeking a IC of her own which I encouraged.
I'm going to write the letter, haven't decided if I will give it to her yet.
Thanks again and keep me updated on how you make out. Best of luck
