Yeah I guess consensus is to disengage and let her deal with it. Plus I don't have a choice now, she told me today she wants to end communication because it will never work. She says my family and friends hate her and that it will never be the same. Plus she said that our Sunday beach trip was one of the best trips she ever had with me and that it is only confusing her more because I waited this long to give her what she needed. I guess a little NC wont hurt. We probably went one day without talking for our 7 year relationship.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
