Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
what's your relationship like with her family? I find it unusual that a parent would encourage their child to divorce so fast, without exploring a lot more in dept. The hormones can make wildly dramatic huge mood swings but they would know that or

What do you think your wife would say if she were here?


Her step mom sent me a card and it said "I don't give my kids advice on there private life I only listen. The only advice I could give her is when you're crying more than you're smiling that's not a good place to be mentally. You cannot teach someone how to act or feel. you cant teach affection or compassion, you might feel it on your heart but some people don't know how to show it. I have no hard feelings for you and I wish you all the happiness in the world."

I asked her the first time we were talking about this if maybe its her hormones getting her as upset about this as she is. She said No and that she had been feeling this way for a while. It's just hard for me to see ending a marriage because of this, but that's me and I know women run off emotions and if this is truly how she feels RIGHT NOW than in her mind THIS is how she feels and she cant see her love for me through her hurt and anger. Do you think that with some time she could possibly see things in a different light once the anger and hurt has subsided.