Thanks Tread. It's a weird subject for us. She keeps wanting to know who I told, yet her boyfriend has made their relationship public on facebook since September and posts something every week of them two. I'm from town A, live in town B, and they are in town C. These towns are about 30 minutes from each. I don't have any mutual friends with the boyfriend so I didn't know for 6 months plus I don't have a Facebook until I created a fake one to snoop. I dislike social media for this very reason. I disliked it even before I found out. Now some friends of I and W are finding out and she is getting mad at me for making her out to be a bad person. Not my fault I get random calls asking how my marriage is bc someone seen my wife and boyfriend out. Pretty ironic she gets mad at that yet boyfriend posts about their life together. I asked her why she let him post stuff and her reply is that she can't control him. Pretty sorry answer and logic but hey I guess logic was thrown out a long time ago.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
