Honestly we never fought, we argued from time to time but usually small things. Like I said she told me just last week that she's been resenting me for 2 years cause she felt like the intimacy was lacking and that I wasn't as compassionate as she felt I should've been and during her treatments she said she felt I didn't show her as much compassion as she wanted. Everyday I came home from work I always made sure to give her a kiss, I always held her hand when walking places or in the car driving. Always kissed her goodnight with a I love you. She felt that she initiated sex more than I did which maybe she did but I didn't as much cause maybe I didn't want to be rejected. She wanted more passion and in her words wants a love like the movie the notebook.