Honestly I was in my foolish head just trying to get her to set a higher goal. I should've just supported her goal and been done with it. What I'm working on in myself is to show her often how much I cherish her. I'm working on making sure I only says things that would lift her up and cut out the dumb comments that make her think I'm insensitive. I'm also working on changing the way I handle discussions that make me feel like she's attacking me when she's really just trying to tell me how she feels at the time.
Yes she was on a tremendous amount of hormones, mostly estrogen and progesterone for the past two years and when she stopped them her hormones were all outta whack for a while before this last time we tried.
