I'm sorry your soon to be x is being an a44hat. You are a funny, kind, smart lady and I have no doubt that things will work themselves out and you will be stronger on the other side. Still, it hurts and it is bizarre being betrayed by someone we thought we would be with until death. It can make one wonder if it was all a façade, but in reality, you know it was real.
I am of a different school of thought than some. I don't necessarily think people "regret" their decisions. They may no like the outcome because it isn't what they wanted. However, I believe people don't make their decisions lightly and it has been well thought out. Regardless of how outlandish it is! I know people who have been married to their affair partners for 10 plus years and have kids with them. Eh, I think sometimes we wish karma would get them (or that they feel repercussions for their actions)but in reality, maybe they don't truly feel the loss because they didn't value what they had? And initially, I think that is what I wanted for my ex. I am so ashamed to admit that. It did not take long for me to realize that is too exhausting for me to concern myself with. I have realized people do what they do. Every thing we ALL do has repercussions (good or bad) and as long as we can live with the consequences or outcome, then that is on us. I wish ex Mr. GB no ill will and hope that he finds peace for himself. Whatever that looks like is on him. I have to focus on my peace:)Sorry, I hijacked.
Can't help with online dating. I only did it for about 3 weeks and I had been eyeing the person I went out with as he worked in my building. However, I think it would be fun if one just relaxes and enjoys themselves. I have known some people to have great success and others have just had fun and used it as one avenue of meeting peeps.
Hope the holiday was nice:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
