If I remember correctly, NG has no kids? If that is the case, then I do understand your concerns. However, and maybe this is because I can relate to these things.....is it possible he just likes her? And I don't mean he has any romantic feelings for her, but perhaps things did not work out and he just cares for her? Maybe they have a deep friendship bond that transcended their marriage. I actually see how that can happen. However, I also understand how you may feel a bit uneasy with that.
NG sounds great and it sounds like he has really tried to embrace your life. I can't speak for you, but I do understand that it would be difficult for ANY one to embrace my crazy life. Embracing 3 kids is a wonderful, yet somewhat daunting undertaking:)
Have you ever asked NG why he is still so attached to his ex? Does he discuss a future (meaning would he consider marriage again) with you? How long were they together? I guess I am with Don. I may have more questions than answers, but I do think NG's intentions are not malicious. Relationships at this point are challenging as we all have stuff, but I whole heartedly agree that adding unnecessary complications is a no.
Hang in there. I hope the weekend was good. Sending you a hug!
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
