Your xh is about the dumbest man I have ever read about. Crying poor mouth and yet, purchasing a car on a credit card, which the records can be requested by the court at any time. As for the OW, I don't know who she sees about her back issues, but surely there is a surgeon that can take care of her back problems for her. Evidently her surgeon isn't a good one or she's not following the surgeon's orders or something else is going on that isn't being told. Seven back surgeries is a lot of work in 4 years.
Yep, the judge saw through them and I'm glad he gave you the option of what to do. One of these days, the judge is going to get tired of him and the OW tying up precious time and start charging them even more for court appearances.
