Hello Everyone!

There has been some strange movement in MLC land and I wanted to get the community's thoughts. I have read that sometimes the MLCer will move toward the LBS and then suddenly retract.

Why do they do this?

Over the long holiday weekend, H appeared to move, ever so incrementally, toward me. Very small things. For instance, I ran out of coffee cream on Saturday morning. H offered to run to the local coffee joint to pick some up for me. I declined his offer.

H went to the grocery store on Saturday and picked up some steaks to grill yesterday. He even made my favorite rub and marinade.

Then almost suddenly, yesterday afternoon, while he was grilling he was on his phone a lot and then seemed to distance himself from me and S. Almost like a light switch. I didn't mention it nor did I react to it. I am doing my best to ignore it and detach.

I am just noticing the tiny steps toward and now back. I don't understand this.