I think if the truth were told right now, the next level of detaching is what I'm having trouble with. I'm being honest with myself about that. It is very tough to keep detaching while she lives with me. If I go extreme with it then she's just going to resent me.
I'm staying most focused on me and doing things that make ME happy. And yes you are right being there for my kids is the #1 thing making me happy right now. We're two weeks away from taking an awesome vacation and being without my WW for several days.
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house
