I would just add that I agree with the comment of not putting too much weight on that snapshot of W's life. Rarely do mlcers shout out about how lousy they really feel and how life isn't rosey. Just take it as confirmation that all isn't well with her and leave her to it.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
