you know the "rules" are not rules. They are guidelines Sandi assembled based on the DB principles.

They are not ALL applicable, and only some apply to some of the situations here. These are and certainly not to be rigidly applied.

Do what works, and what saves your self respect, and sanity. If you monitor for results and see none, then change the approach. Standing does not mean "waiting" or standing still.

Detach, keep your temper and be the best dad you can be. Your kids need you more now than ever.

Hang in there

Last edited by Cadet; 05/30/17 04:55 AM. Reason: Start a new thread message
M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change