WW won't separate

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I've had an OK weekend, fairly detached from my W.

I did bring up the cell phone plan again this afternoon and she admitted she hasn't done anything about getting her own plan. I will follow up again in a few days but this is excruciating b/c I know she's not going to do anything. I did tell her just to have the OM pay for it and then I walked away.

I feel as if I'm stuck deep in rule #24 right now.

24. Be patient......very, very patient. Give your spouse space and time. When you pull back, it will draw them towards you. It feels opposite of what you want to do, but it works!

I am pulling way back and trying to be patient. This is so hard to do with 3 kids at home right now and living in the same house and forced to be in MBR with W.

The question that keeps coming back to me is how will I know when I'm just done?