Hi Stunned, Sorry for the circumstances that brought you here, but glad you've found a safe place here. There are lots of very wise veterans on this site. Post often and you'll get more feedback, plus it will help keep your posts toward the front of the board. Also, read others' threads. Lots to learn from other people's triumphs as well as our mistakes! Hang in there!
M-60 H-51 M-14 years BD 12/26/16 S 1/1/17
"First the pain, then the rising." Glennon Doyle Melton