Ugh, so my friend contacted me with a guilty/sheepish sounding message, implying there had been some more contact with this OP.

TBH, I've been feeling a bit upset about it - that he has drawn me into his situation as a confidante. I told him it was up to him what he did, but if he was choosing to continue that contact, I didn't agree with it and asked him not to confide in me about it.

Ugh - I guess I'm just still really sensitive about this kind of stuff...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus