Sorry to hear about your W cheating. But at least you now know what pushed your W into wanting to leave. Don't get me wrong the neglect was a big part. But I have discovered that there is always a trigger that makes WS decide to leave. So your W is most likely lying about knowing she wanted to leave prior. Also your W is making no sense. The OM helped her appreciate you more. How is that? Especially when you say that she is only looking at the negative in you. But yet speaks about how great the OM is.
Did you ask for any details in regards to OM? Does OM have a w or does he work with your W? Don't get me wrong. Your focus should be solely on your MR, but these are details that you should know about. Because OP will always have a place in blocking when your trying to make changes in your MR.
Also what do you mean by strong bond.? Has she now shown signs of wanting to possibly make the MR work now that the truth is out there?
