You've given me some great things to think about, 25. I'm sorry you're dealing with what you are dealing with right now with your husband. Marriage is hard, and so is fixing a broken marriage, or deciding to end one. My wife seems to only want to do 2 or 3 IC sessions. I'm concerned that isn't enough, but maybe MC can fulfill the rest of her IC needs.
Wsh,
no offense okay? But I meant that you would be getting the IC you need.
From your own description of your m, she was doing the heavy lifting for a long lonely time.
Now you are making the changes she was hoping & asking for, and my concern is, not all but mostly, that you won't keep at it.
She has her stuff and she can do that in her sandbox.
Make sense?
I appreciate your sympathy. It's never easy, though it's harder when there are children involved. My girls are especially hurt by h's actions as he seems to have cut them out of his life. They will not be the same women they would have been, though how that all pans out is out of my hands.
If I could go back in time it would not only be h I'd want IC for, but me as well. Lots of things and resentments I missed, or noticed but did not attach to me.
Keep at your own work b/c no matter what, you want to know you became the man you were meant to become. Not a guy tinkering indoors or living in fear of new people or surrendering to anxiety issues, or keeping the woman you love from living her life fully, as well.
You are already charting a new course for your life. Keep on it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
